15 Ways to Stimulate Creativity in Kids
Do you want your kids trying out things, dreaming of possibilities, poking at alternatives, inventing strategies, digging at problems or just sitting and watching television and shortening their lives with a bag of chips?
Kids' First 7 Magic Years
You are the leader. Your child spends most of her/his time with you and looks up to you as her/his model, you take charge. They are like sponges drinking in everything you say. And no one else observes them closely as you do. So you know what they're ready for. You know what gets their attention.
But more importantly, they watch you closely. How you respond to life's challenges and demands are realities from which they learn. When they see your "go for it" attitude, they will drink it in. If you seem to enjoy trying new things and looking for new ways, the odds are they will, too. So free your spirit of adventure and let your creativity grow.
You have their first 7 years to really set lifetime values and attitudes. So, go for maximum impact. They are watching.
1. Be creative yourself
Develop your own creativity first. They will even watch you doing that and learn. Do what I do is always more powerful than do what I say. Once you've cranked your own creative engine, it becomes spontaneous in you.
Occasions come up all of a sudden in children's lives. They are not ordered the way our 9-5 jobs are with the action plan. That is boring for them as it is for us. Kids love to be with someone who can think out fun things with them. It is the best investment you have for your children.
Creativity kits are so helpful because they offer everything you need for an activity. It is the easiest to open and engage the kids when you don't really have the time or you run out of ideas.
2. Spark their imagination
"I can because I can imagine." Young minds wander and love to dress the part when they go to parties or even when they just play at home. I am a teacher. I am a model. I am a doctor. I am Superman. This is what you often hear them declare. Encourage this and don't make fun of little guys acting out roles. Give them the resources to act the part and be their cheer leader.
Enter into what fascinates them. See what they look at in books and magazines. Start providing the environment and resources they need: books, paints, colors, paper, pens and things they can make something out of.
Forget made-up toys. Or entertainment toys. We all have seen how much fun kids have over a cardboard box. The cardboard box has challenged the creativity of kids in all cultures, more than any toy ever made!
They will also start rummaging into your things and trying out your clothes. Allow them the joy and show them some things have to be cared for more than others but encourage them to try out and look different.
3. Let them do something for you
When kids know you appreciate whatever little things they do for you, they'll keep doing this. Ask them to do something special for you or for someone close to them. They can make cards or just provide them with tools and a challenge and you'll be amazed at what these kids will come up with.
In the picture above, our 2 grand daughters organized a birthday party for me and so they're making things I might enjoy.
4. Engage them in stimulating events
Bring them to craft shows, plays and other stimulating events
Bring them to trade fairs, musical events, stage plays, dance performances, crafts and cooking demonstrations, science centers, art shows and art galleries. Let them see you asking questions and they will learn. Let them see you helping others, treating merchants well, being happy in public - you are their model.
You don't have to spend a fortune on these events. There are many free ones right in your community. Is there a Chinatown/Greek town/whatever town. Get moving! A little research on your part is all you need. If there is nothing much in your vicinity, time to move before it's too late. You cannot put your child's growth on hold or remedy later. Seven magical years to really make a difference!
5. Keep them playing with other kids
Kids love to play. They can always find ways and things to play with. They love to play school. They love to play home. They love to play store. This does not only help them learn but also nurtures their capacity to build relationships. Organize a play group so your child will learn new skills and relate with other kids.
When kids are at play, they make various kinds of decisions. They make compromises. They make for win-win situations. They make sacrifices. They get and offer attention. They help. They think. They become strategic. Play is just a wealth of experiences for kids. Ration the TV. Ration the computer. Don't ration your attention.
6. Provide them the tools
Get them a camera. You will be surprised at how creative kids are at taking pictures. Their angles are totally different and they love to experiment and try out things in their cameras. Taking good pictures is a skill they can use in life and learning how to do this early will give them an edge. Having their own camera they can play with is very important.
Often, many of us find them using our cameras and oh boy the crap they'll get when this happens. Encourage your kids by getting them a very good camera. In fact, what would even be better is display in your house the pictures they have taken. Beautifully framed, most pictures look good. This is not what is important. It is building their confidence that matters. Think of this as an investment in their future.
It doesn't have to be a camera. It depends on what your kids are interested in. Maybe, a fishing kit or art kit. Provide several so you'll get a sense of what gets their interest.
7. Provide your child with a big vision board
They can express what they want to be, how they see themselves in the future, their favourite things. They can pin or paste pictures on it and they can change the images as often as they like. You can both enjoy looking at the changes. A special moment you both could enjoy.
This will help the child learn to have direction in life. As they track the changes, they see paths and patterns. They can change if they want to add new things.
More so, when these are in pretty boxes that engage their imagination. Fashion jewelry, pieces of wood and plastic, paper, cloth and string-all these work. As they explore possibilities, they start to make the most unlikely reorganization of their box treasures.
Kids love tinkering into boxes. Especially treasure boxes. Allow them to do so with your own boxes. This is your chance to talk with them how to care for things and the value of the things you keep. This will inspire them to start their own collection. They need to develop their imagination on how they can create some of the things they like. Not only will they develop some craft skills, drawing and painting skills and organizing skills, they will also see these moments as their special time with you.
Encourage them to look at the bigger garden and how their patch can enhance it. You will be surprise at how well they can match your design. And if they don't, your child is more important than your garden. Right?
10. Ask them to organize plays on special occasions
Or when the family gathers
Kids love, at a certain age, to present shows to adults in which they sing, dance and wear costumes and do whatever they fancy. And you know what? There are always grandparents to watch these shows. And they are thoroughly bias. They surely will enjoy these. Or cast them in plays in church or school. But there is nothing more fun for them than their own shows. What an entertainment you will have! You will be surprised at what they can come up with.
There are drama schools that offer courses for kids especially in the summer. You can send them there so they learn the skills. There is no substitute, however, to a supportive and appreciative family always ready to watch whatever shows they come up with. This is where multigeneration times like holidays in the cottage Christmas are handy. There is a crowd to encourage their creative juices.
11. Encourage them to express themselves
In song, dance, art or whatever form of expression. This is your chance to express yourself, too. They will always think you are the great figure skater, prima ballerina or coloratura.
Have them invent songs. Make up words. Let them explore things in their minds freely. Yes, when they feel safe to explore with their minds, they will use their mental capability to the full and you'll be surprised at what they'll come up with.
In our home, when the grandchildren are around, my husband and the kids talk to each other through songs. They become very creative with their words to make it ryhme. It is sometimes outrageous what they would sing. Be prepared for it!
12. Help them spin stories - Start them at making their story books
Telling a story is a useful skill to develop. When you start them doing it, before you know it, they will be telling their own stories. Start simply. When you read a bedtime story, start your child's imagination by asking how she thinks the character can be improved. Or you can start a story and let your child add to it.
They can also make story books which will encourage their artistic bent as well. They can create thie favourite character and make them their costumes, give them a personality and build their character.
13. Involve them in choosing and preparing not just their own activities but that of the family
Let them plan and prepare these. They can do some outdoor sports or go for a picnic in the woods. Our grandchildren used to have a favourite rock we can go to and when there, they just freely give way to their creative expressions.
You can have a campfire. Let them build the fire, roast marshmallows and make s'mores (melted marshmallows and piece of chocolate bar tucked between two graham crackers). When the family is at the cottage, kids love to have campfires. What makes it special is that guests come and enthrall them with their guitars or other instruments. And the kids start thinking, desiring to learn these same skills.
14. Engage them to share
Kids love to create especially when they are doing this for someone. As you encourage them to give way to their creative imagination, you also give this direction by making them create something for someone. Even as simple as choosing a book to read for someone is a creative process. More so, when they have to read these to someone whose interest they have to sustain. This is a joy to watch.
Kids also love to play "teacher". Encourage this as this develops so many skills in them.
15. Let your child lead - You are their cheerleader
Let them pick the path for a walk or a bike ride or the game to play. I have one grandchild who changes the rules in the game each time she gets bored or she thinks she is at a disadvantage. Remember Calvinball from Calvin and Hobbes? There is no way she can bulldoze her way through this. She has to learn early how to persuade others and have them buy the new rule book. And maybe negotiate a few changes. You encourage. You are the cheerleader not the boss.
But you have to be firm around values you want them to learn. Just remember: Whose skills are you developing? Whose self-confidence? Whose creativity? Yours or theirs? Maybe a bit of each? If something goes amiss, don't blow them away. Ask questions. Does that seem fair? Are their alternatives?
Creativity is one of the most valued assets a youngster can have as they grow up. You can really help by being creative yourself and building the model.
Schools and Creativity - Share your thoughts
"We are now running national education systems where mistakes are the worst thing you can make. We are educating people out of their creative capacities." I just read this line from Sir Ken Robinson in the Washington Post site and it made me think.
Do you think schools educate students out of their creative capacities? Share your thoughts in the Comments section.
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